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Come on, guys, do better
Most of the statements and questions listed below are common sense, but for some reason, certain people still feel they have the guts to say them. Not only is it degrading, but it’s uncalled for in every capacity.
The funniest thing about these words that women received is that they were 100% pure reflections of the men who uttered them.
Always look at yourself before you criticize or say something you shouldn’t to another.
I recognize that some guys will naturally find a certain woman more intimidating because of their own insecurities.
Any secure male will never be threatened by an intelligent, secure, and confident woman. Facts.
You need to make x body parts bigger or smaller.
Why don’t you look more like x?
I wish you were less uptight (FYI: if a woman is uptight around you, it’s most likely your fault).
You’re too alpha. You need to learn how to flow more in your feminine energy.
What happened to your face (i.e., pointing out blemishes)?
Why do you look so different without makeup?
You’re stupid. That’s stupid. The way you feel is stupid.
You need to submit to me.
You’re too independent.
I don’t want you hanging around males because I don’t trust them.
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