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Don’t get tripped up by someone’s wealth
I always find it humorous when people try to utilize their wealth or (ample financial resources) to try and woo me.
Unfortunately for them, I’m immune to it and always have been.
Primarily because I prioritize taking care of myself financially. I take no pride in someone else covering my expenses if I can’t cover my own.
But too many people fall for the trap because they’re looking for a financial savior. Someone told me they want to be a housewife so they don’t have to work, but what they really need to do is find work more interesting because that same person got kicked out by their partner and had to sleep on a friend’s couch because they weren’t financially independent.
Stop right there!
Save yourself.
I highly recommend you avoid financially relying on others whenever possible – even when you have plenty of shared resources, do not give up your income source(s).
It’s healthy to maintain your own financial resources. I’ve seen too many people get into tricky situations because they’re financially entangled with someone. Things can get messy real quick.
There are two types of people who try to impress others with their financial resources:
Those that have the money.
Those who look like they have the money, charge everything, have loads of debt, and are financially struggling.
Both types are annoying, but the second is even worst.
10 Signs Your Date Is TryingTo Impress You Financially
They frequently chat about their “high-class” work in an egotistical way.
Their purchases don’t match their income – as in, they’re overspending.
They show you their investment portfolio (yes, this has happened).
They chat about their bank balances (which I never understood).
They talk about money (not in a tasteful way) a bit too often.
They boast about their generosity to people who need it.
They talk about how much they financially help others.
They frequently mention the famous people they know.
They frequently boast about their high-end purchases.
They have high credit card balances.
They’re on the verge of bankruptcy.
Another Consideration
Something you need to consider is anyone who feels a need to display their wealth overtly is probably making up for some other area of their life that is in significant deficit. It’s also a very telling sign of insecurity, which is a code for TROUBLE AHEAD.
I know a few people currently stuck in financial entanglements. If they leave, they will need their own income; until then, they’re stuck.
Money isn’t everything, but it does create options and freedoms that people who don’t have it can’t experience.
This content is for informational purposes only — not professional advice. Consult a qualified professional before making any major decisions.