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But pushing through low moments is what separates the average from the world-class.
Writing poetry can be the easiest thing in the world for me when I’m grieving because it provides me an outlet; all of the pain spills out into poetry form, but writing personal development topics and finance (my biggest passions) takes spirit, heart, and tenacity when I’m going through it.
I’ve noticed that writing becomes more manageable once I take a few steps back from my grief. The grief doesn’t disappear, but I’ve learned to alchemize that “grief energy” into something good.
Take Emotion Out Of Your Writing
Energy has two uses; it can be utilized productively, or it can be utilized reproductively.
Writing can be quite an emotional sport; if you’re not careful, you will only write when you feel motivated.
Emotions can be a writer’s worst enemy or best friend. Some writers can only write when they are going through something traumatic; others only write when they’re primarily happy-go-lucky. Don’t be an emotional writer; be a consistent writer. You’ll make more progress if you write this way.
A world-class writer will produce words no matter what, though. These are the writers that build careers and make an impact on the world with their words.
My Grief Almost Took Me Away From Writing
Shit happens. Over a year ago, I lost someone I love – my heart and soul. I’m still profoundly unsettled about it because of my unending love for them. The second wave of grief came over me recently due to unforeseen circumstances, and I’m still working through that.
But I read something interesting today in “177 Mental Toughness Secrets of The World Class” that gave me the boost I needed:
“Champions know why they’re fighting […]. When the going gets tough and the pain kicks in, average people back off from a goal or task. This is when the world class really begins to fight. When they begin to feel physical or psychological pain, they go inside themselves and draw on their vast reserves of emotional power.”
Yesterday, during a moment of grief, I asked myself, “Do I still have a purpose?”
My response was an immediate “YES.”
Though I’m in pain and grieving, I aim to inspire and lift others. That’s why I’m here. I’m going to fight through the grief, the disappointment, the pain, and the new journey I never envisioned for myself because of you.
If you’re grieving, depressed, hopeless, or going through it today, know that you’re not alone. It’s okay to feel your pain and dive into those emotions. But do not lose yourself or your dreams in the process. You still have a purpose, life, and immense value; hold onto these truths and forge ahead!
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