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We still prioritize the troglodytic way of thinking
Do We Really Need To Prioritize And Learn What Men Find Attractive?
We still prioritize the troglodytic way of thinking
I get it; it’s a fun and tasteful subject that many women like to read about so they can ensure they have their physical sh*t together when it comes to reeling in a man.
But why are we still doing this?
At this point, why do we still care and prioritize what men find attractive?
What the f*ck do we women find attractive about ourselves because that’s what counts. Not what men find attractive about us.
Over the years, I’ve had men tell me their preferences of what they do and don’t like, and I’m not going to lie; I have my preferences, too.
But when what a man likes starts dictating how women present themselves and what they change to their bodies, it becomes a problem.
The more we focus on what men find most attractive about a woman, the less we focus on what we find most attractive about our bodies.
It doesn’t matter what men think about us; it really doesn’t. And if they don’t find you attractive, who cares? Seriously. Who f*cking cares? They can kick rocks and find someone else, as can you.
Many women spend money on everything mentioned in the article to “fix” or “improve.”
The 10 Things Men Find Attractive Listed In The Article
Booty
Breasts.
Legs.
Eyes.
Lips.
Ladies, Acne is never sexy.
Nails, hands, and feet that are in good shape.
Your figure.
A smile: The best thing on this list.
The Culture Of Beauty
#1, #2, #4, #5, #8
Butt lifts, boob jobs, lip jobs, expensive plastic surgery to “improve” your figure…these are all a part of the culture of beauty that women subject themselves to; you don’t have to be a participant. You can opt-out.
Some women are dying from beauty procedures; others are endangering themselves and have extended recovery times. I’ve seen it happen in real life.
#6
I’ve had very bad acne throughout my life. Did that make me less attractive? Maybe to some, but it shouldn’t matter – especially if you’re working to improve your skin via diet, exercise, and a proper routine.
There are many men that can see past a simple skin issue such as acne.
Sexiness doesn’t come from the skin, it comes from your demeanor, how you carry yourself, and your confidence.
I would know because I’ve dealt with acne, but men didn’t seem to have a problem with it.
The Beauty Industry
This is a billion-dollar industry that thrives off the insecurities of women and the desires of men.
Plastic surgery was originally founded to help improve veterans that experienced physical altercations to their bodies and faces from combat.
Now, look what plastic surgery has become…
It’s now something that many women aspire to or plan on getting at some point to improve something about their physical selves, because they have a thought planted in their mind that who they are isn’t good enough.
I’m not against it, but when you’re getting plastic surgery because you seed in your mind that your body isn’t good enough, I need to look like x to be more physically attractive, or whatever other insidious thoughts you might have, it’s a problem.
Part 1 – We Forget We Are Beautiful Without Adjustments
9 Physical Features That Attract Men the Most
What folks see as genuinely
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