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Create and build your own sh*t
Who is in the best financial position?
I suppose you could ask, “Well, it depends on where and how they are traveling?”
But the answer is quite evident because all these people travel to their desired destinations.
Person one is in the best financial position because they are funding their dreams without the assistance of others.
You might want to live a particular lifestyle, live in a specific home, drive a particular car, or wear specific brands, but can you afford it on your own, or do you need someone else to help you?
Many people can’t and rely on someone else to make it happen.
Is this wrong? No, but it does not equate to financial independence, which is common; most people never experience it.
Many people are unable to afford to live on their own financially.
Many people need someone else’s financial support to live how they desire.
Don’t Get Caught Wishing For A Financial Savior
It’s not uncommon to chat with someone looking for a financial savior (this logic applies to both males and females).
I know people who have been saved by someone financially, and I know people who are still waiting for that person to save them financially.
It may happen for them, but how long will they allow wishful thinking to dominate their financial position?
Not only do many of these people need more goals, but also ambition to better their financial position without riding off someone else’s work ethic.
Relationships Can Be Vehicles For Financial Acceleration
One of the primary reasons couples move in together or get married is for financial reasons.
One couple rushed the marriage process to save on medical benefits. Are they prioritizing love and ensuring a healthy relationship or financial convenience?
Three couples decided to move in together to save money on housing; now, all of them are stuck and financially co-dependent on one another. Initially, moving in together and saving money seemed wise, but they should have taken time to work on gaining financial independence simultaneously.
What can end up happening when you use others for financial gain is you become reliant on them, and it becomes challenging to separate because you equate their income to your income.
Coupling up with someone can genuinely accelerate your financial independence if you ensure you can live the life you desire without the other person present.
This content is for informational purposes only — not professional advice. Consult a qualified professional before making any major decisions.