This piece is part of my 2016–2026 archive migration. Some original formatting, content, and external links may be missing, changed, or not be optimized.
“If You Sleep With Me On The First Date, I Have No Respect For You”
A funny double standard many live by
He sheepishly replied incoherently.
A female friend told me she doesn’t care when the first homerun happens; if she’s feeling you, she’ll go for it because why not?
I suggest doing whatever makes you happy and safe, but I don’t believe you should ever succumb to double standards or be too cautious about what men, women, or others think of your actions.
Sex is a taboo subject, and people place a lot of rules around it – especially those from religious backgrounds.
Men, women, and others all have their perspectives on sex, but many still have a similar process as my guy friend.
My recommendation: Always challenge the truths you’ve adopted and determine your standards based on what feels best for you.
Finally, never allow someone or something else to determine your value based on your actions.
You always set your worth-no one else.
This content is for informational purposes only — not professional advice. Consult a qualified professional before making any major decisions.