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But healthy and direct communication creates the best relationships
Sometimes it doesn’t make sense to communicate how someone wronged us. Still, for active people in our lives, when we don’t communicate our grievances with them, we are potentially allowing the behavior to continue.
It’s easy to stay quiet and not communicate how someone affects you. But healthier relationships will always encompass healthy and direct communication.
Action
Instead of immediately responding to someone when they hurt, insulted, or bothered you, take a moment to think through your response so you can respond respectfully, thoughtfully, and intelligently.
Some people can immediately communicate calmly and respectfully after a blow. Still, many people become more riled up and need time to digest and process their emotions to effectively and productively communicate how the actions or words of another affect them.
This content is for informational purposes only — not professional advice. Consult a qualified professional before making any major decisions.