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The first no can feel like heartbreak
The next no may feel like a deep cut.
Then the next ones may feel like minor scrapes.
Finally, the word “no” will have little to no effect on you.
One important thing to remember when going after something you really want is to get comfortable with the word “no”.
Not everyone or everything will accept you, and this is okay.
Your “YES” is coming in time from the right place at the right time. It helps to be patient, but most importantly it helps to not stop trying and going after whatever it is you are reaching for.
1. Don’t give up
2. Be comfortable with “no”
3. Know your “yes” is on its way
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