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    12 Commitments

    ByDestiny S. Harris

    12 Commitments is a powerful guide for anyone determined to live with more purpose, discipline, and self-respect. Each commitment pushes you to elevate your standards, cut out distractions, and build a life rooted in intention rather than impulse. This book covers every pillar of a strong…

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    Does Your Partner Want to Move In for LOVE or the 50% Discount?

    ByDestiny S. Harris

    A Top Reason Couples Move In Together Nobody in love wants to hear this, but one of the top reasons couples move in together is not due to love; it’s due to money! It’s no mystery. Two people in love? F*ck yeah. “Let’s live together and…

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    12 Money Lessons I Learned Early; How To Build Wealth Slow But Fast

    ByDestiny S. Harris

    P1 — 12 Money Lessons I Learned Early Childhood was an analytics playground for me. I was constantly observing…everything. Listening in on adult conversations, watching people’s habits, watching what people said, and seeing how things were done — not only with my parents, but all the adults I interacted…

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    5 Cringe Phrases Women Say About Money and 6 Traits of A Financially Independent Woman

    ByDestiny S. Harris

    33% of Americans Are Uncomfortable Discussing Money In Their Relationships Before we hop into the five phrases…. There are three things to discuss. 1. Choose Your Financial Partner Wisely In this day and age, many women have cultivated financial independence and freedom for themselves, which is…

  • Finance

    Don’t Cosign Your Kids Students Loans, And Why Cosigning Is Always A Risky Bet

    ByDestiny S. Harris

    If you want to take a gamble, cosign a loan. Good luck. I Got Help With A Cosign My mother was gracious enough to cosign a student loan, so I could get extra funding for college. The good news is that I paid off the student loan…

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    Price Threshold: Your Wallet Isn’t the Problem — Your Mindset Is

    ByDestiny S. Harris

    Most people don’t have a money problem. They have a comfort-zone problem. And that comfort zone shapes their financial reality more than any salary, job, economy, or “cost of living” ever will. People love saying things like: “That’s too expensive.” “How much does that cost?”…

  • Relationships

    400 Rules for Building a Boundaried Life That Feels Like Freedom

    ByDestiny S. Harris

    Boundaries aren’t walls; they’re clarity. They define what gets your time, energy, and peace — and what doesn’t. When you finally start protecting yourself, life stops feeling chaotic and starts feeling sacred. These aren’t theories; they’re survival codes. Read them slow and apply the ones…

  • Finance

    10 Financial Habits Keeping You Broke

    ByDestiny S. Harris

    1. Live Above Your Means The fastest way to stay broke is to live like you make more than you do. Most people have no idea where their money goes because they never track it—they just swipe, tap, and hope there’s something left. The only…

  • Relationships

    50 Brutal Rules for Your Relationship With Self

    ByDestiny S. Harris

    Your Relationship With Self Your relationship with yourself is the only one guaranteed to last a lifetime, yet it’s the one most people abandon first. We chase validation, attention, and approval, but forget to learn our own language. Self-respect isn’t built from affirmation; it’s built…

  • Real Estate

    Buy the House, Lose the Bag? Not Worth It

    ByDestiny S. Harris

    Don’t fake wealth by owning a home you can’t actually afford Let’s kill the fantasy: having a house doesn’t make you financially stable. It just means you have a mortgage. I’ve watched people flex a home purchase while quietly draining their savings, missing investment opportunities, and…

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    15 Signs You’re More Disciplined Than You Think

    ByDestiny S. Harris

    Redefining discipline and why consistency matters more than perfection When people picture discipline, they imagine elite athletes, CEOs waking up at 4 a.m., or perfectly structured routines that never miss a beat. The assumption is: discipline equals success, health, and endless productivity. But here’s the…

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    The Identity Beyond Goals: Why Impossible Dreams Forge Extraordinary Lives

    ByDestiny S. Harris

    We love goals. They keep us moving, they give us milestones, and they reassure us that we’re on track. But here’s the trap: when goals are always safe, they stop being ladders and start becoming ceilings. Most people set objectives they know they can hit….

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    10 Traits That Forge Success

    ByDestiny S. Harris

    Success isn’t luck — it’s built. These are the traits that separate the average from the unstoppable:

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    What Is Escalating In Your Life

    ByDestiny S. Harris

    The warnings you ignore become the consequences you can’t escape You often get a million chances before the universe goes: okay, you won’t listen — here’s a hard lesson. Finally. I’m putting on size. I’m eating steadily. I’m lifting strong. The weight is compounding and…

  • Relationships

    50+ Brutally Honest Rules for Relationships

    ByDestiny S. Harris

    Love can build you or break you. It can expand you or shrink you. Most people stumble because they ignore the truths that keep them grounded. These aren’t clichés or sugarcoated advice — they’re the 50+ brutally honest rules that actually matter for relationships. Rules…

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