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Are you willingly driving your finances into the ground?
Focusing On Material Items
Spending Above Your Income Levels
Buying Cars You Can’t Afford To Pay In Cash
Too Much House
Accepting Mediocre Pay
In this article, I will explore seven more reasons why you’re not only in debt but still have a negative net worth.
1. Too Many Expenses
Expenses will kill any money flowing into your pockets and bank accounts. Many of your expenses are entirely unnecessary and optional, too.
When was the last time you sat down, took a pen, and wrote down all your expenses? If you haven’t done it recently, get started. You’d be surprised to find out how much you’re spending on stuff you don’t need, don’t use, and is a complete waste of your resources.
2. Over-Traveling On A Luxurious Budget
If you want to travel, but have few resources, don’t avoid travel. Find a way to travel on a budget so you can still explore the world. However, if you travel, ensure you’re not going into debt to make it happen.
Instead of staying at a five-star hotel, choose a three-star. Instead of going with 1 or 2 friends, go with 3–5 friends so you can split the cost of the trip further. Instead of buying drinks at the bar and dining out the whole trip, buy alcohol from the store and cook your meals. There is always a way to enjoy a vacation and make it work for your budget.
3. Lifestyle Creep
Do you need a new phone every year? No.
Do you need to upgrade your car every two to three years? No.
Do you need to upgrade your wardrobe every season? No.
Do you need to get a new tablet or smartwatch every 1-2 years? No.
Do you need a bigger house? Sometimes you do, but many times you don’t and need to downsize.
As our income rises, so do our lifestyle costs. It’s not fair to our bank accounts to continue escalating our expenses.
Watch out for lifestyle inflation. The first thing you can do when you get an increase in income is cut your costs, something 99% of people don’t do.
4. Recreation
I knew a couple that spent hundreds, if not thousands, every month on recreation and entertainment.
What happened to their money was not a pretty sight; it disappeared.
Naturally, they were forced to live paycheck to paycheck because they could not control their recreational appetites.
Recreational activities could also be labeled addictions if you lose control. Examples of recreational activities include gambling, alcohol, drugs, going out, etc.
Monitor the recreational activities; these can evolve into a pretty penny in a matter of seconds.
5. Dating
One minute you’re on track with your money, and the next minute you’re dating and spending more than you ever imagined.
Dating can get pricey – especially if you cover all the meals, drinks, and outings. Factor in clothing, fashion, grooming, and gifts, and you might start to wonder where all your money is disappearing; it’s going to your new sweetheart(s).
When you’re dating, create a budget, and stick to it. Set firm boundaries and follow through; if you don’t, your money will fly away like the wind.
6. Shopping Sprees
Ever come back home with more items than you anticipated? It might be food, clothes, or random stuff. The same applies to online shopping. Our intention might be to buy some batteries, and then we add chapstick, dog treats, a t-shirt, house slippers, a supplement, a phone case, cleaning supplies, a gaming keyboard, or a new skin product.
Shop with purpose, and don’t get distracted.
Advertisers are incredibly skilled at catching our attention, so we always buy more than we plan, but the trick is to stay aware of this and only buy the item we came to the store for.
The more you practice shopping with discipline, the easier it will become.
If you see something you like, think about it for 48–72 hours. Notice if the item remains a desire. If so, buy it, but only if you can afford to do so without going further into debt.
7. Dining Out
Convenience is king. Cooking can be a daunting task sometimes, and eating out is more digestible and satisfying fast.
However, if you’re not cautious, you will spend more than you’re getting in return. Aside from better health, cooking and eating in will save you dollars now and dollars in the future because you will experience better health if you eat healthier indoors.
This content is for informational purposes only — not professional advice. Consult a qualified professional before making any major decisions.