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Another person’s wealth should never replace your financial independence
He has thousands of employees and multiple operations throughout the midwest, and he’s on the board of several companies. So no, he is not lacking in money, and he ensured I knew about it early on in our initial conversations.
It all looks and sounds perfect, but my nonchalance proves that none of the facts matter.
I’m not desperate and never will be.
Money is nice, but I will never look to another person to provide it for me because I am determined to provide it for myself.
My partner can provide for me or contribute to my lifestyle, but I will still always be able to do so on my own; this is one of my definitions of financial independence.
Many people would love to have the opportunity to be wooed by a wealthy individual who will provide them the opportunity to be taken care of. Still, I know something even better than this, and it’s called financial independence.
It has always taken more than money and wealth for me to choose to be romantically involved with someone.
Many People Are Financially Independent, But Many Aren’t
My mother always taught me to have my own. It doesn’t matter if I’m married or in a relationship with someone who can and willingly will support me.
What matters is that I can always take care of myself. Does this mean I won’t allow others to provide for me? Not at all.
Is It Okay To Receive Provision?
Yes. Receiving support from others or being financially taken care of is not bad. However, as you receive this support, ensure you still produce your own income.
It is prudent never to allow someone complete financial control over your life; that is too much power you’re giving away.
10 Examples Of Financial Independence
I recently wrote the article “10 Examples Of Financial Independence.” The examples include the following:
1. You Don’t HAVE To Live With Other People
2. You Carry Little To No Debt
3. You Have A 1 Year Emergency Fund
4. You Are Responsible With Credit Cards
5. You Spend Less Than You Earn
6. You Have Active Entrepreneurial Ventures
7. You’re Not Putting On A Show
8. You’re Not Seeking A Financial Savior
9. You Know How To Manage Money
10. You’re Not Financially Dependent On Others
These examples allow you to question how well you stand on your own two feet financially.
The One Income Household Still Works
Many people are with someone who financially provides everything, and it’s working for them.
If their situation changed, or they required their own financial resources, how would they fair, though? For some, they would quickly get access to financial resources, but for others, they would scramble and suffer.
Always have a plan b.
This content is for informational purposes only — not professional advice. Consult a qualified professional before making any major decisions.