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It’s okay to pay for convenience and comfort
As I prepared for another move, a good friend offered their car for me to pack my stuff in, along with their mattress and bed frame.
It was beyond kind, but I knew I would stick with my plan and order a mattress, a bed frame, and a small pickup truck because I no longer had to try and make things work.
Could I save money if I took my friend up on their offer?
Hell yeah, but at what point does saving money cost us convenience and comfort?
With the pickup truck, I didn’t have to force things to fit into a small SUV. I could also save time with fewer trips.
With a new mattress and bed frame, I wouldn’t have to hear sounds every time I moved because that’s what I would experience if I accepted their mattress. Nothing is wrong with this, but I didn’t have to experience this.
I told myself, it’s okay; you can buy those things as planned.
Frugality & Living Are Parallel To One Another
People who have consistently made intelligent choices with their money can fall into the trap of never living and paying for conveniences they can afford.
Instead of trying to ram large furniture pieces in the back of an SUV that would probably be hanging out of the trunk on the highway (we’ve all seen that vehicle or been in that vehicle at some point), I spent a modest amount of money on a pickup truck that I could quickly load up any furniture.
Now I could pack up my belongings in two to three trips or less.
I would’ve taken the mattress, bed frame, and the small SUV in the past, but that kind of consistent accepting of lower-quality options perpetuated a limited financial mindset. It made me feel like I didn’t have resources.
The more broke we act, the more we potentially attract broke circumstances.
There Is A Hidden Cost To Over-Sacrifice
You don’t have to do everything yourself. When you do everything yourself, you lose something, time. It used to take me days and weeks to complete a hair job. After finally going to the salon (as my mother recommended for years), it now only takes me four hours (I have a lot of hair).
You don’t have to sacrifice comfort and quality.
When you sacrifice these things long-term, you miss out on things like better health, experiences, and longevity with your purchases.
Frugality is usually the intelligent route, but you can be frugal and still meet your basic needs, save time, and afford your own mattress.
Switch It Up: Be Frugal And Effective
Everything doesn’t have to be hard.
Everything doesn’t have to be super cheap.
Everything doesn’t have to be done by yourself.
You don’t always have to try and make things work.
When you make healthy financial decisions, this is the green light to make better quality decisions that will increase the available time and offer you better experiences.
This content is for informational purposes only — not professional advice. Consult a qualified professional before making any major decisions.