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The Second Act: Parenting adult children
As I’ve gotten older, I’ve noticed a more profound shift in their parenting practices. Our relationships are more open, genuine, honest, and healthier. We have conversations about things we’ve never previously chatted about, and we support one another with more patience, kindness, love, and empathy.
I don’t have kids, but I’ve learned much about parenting from watching other parents throughout my life. If there is anything I’ve learned, it’s never too late to become a better parent. Even if you suck as a parent, keep trying, put in the effort, and keep working on yourself. Even if your kids never appreciate it, you will leave this earth knowing you gave it your best shot when it’s all said and done.
I commend my parents for their second parenting act (parenting adult children). Whatever I didn’t get in my childhood, I’m receiving now. This is such a beautiful gift that I won’t take for granted. I understand they both had horrible parents, but once again, our parents really can only do the best they know how with the tools they’ve been given.
Parenting is no easy task, but if we can remember that we can gradually all become better parents, godparents, aunties, uncles, and dog parents, we will all be working to create better children and animals for the future. It all starts with us.
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