At least not yet. A previous unmarried partner once asked me to co-sign a car loan. My first thought? F*ck that, bro. I knew instantly that it wasn’t just about the car — it was about the way they moved with money. Their relationship with finances was…
To date, I’ve published almost 5,000 articles and published more than 1,500 books. The books are currently in the process of being redistributed across multiple platforms. The only pain in the ass about having a large backlog is the pain of republishing, redistributing, and editing…
I wrote these questions down about ten years ago. I finally sat down and answered them for myself, and it brought a sobering sense of clarity. What are your answers to these questions? If you had 15 minutes left to live:
This piece is part of my 2016–2026 archive migration. Some original formatting, content, and external links may be missing, changed, or not be optimized. Join the Newsletter → Historically, I f*cking suck at boundaries. So they’re reminders for me, too. Everyone around me knows I…
This piece is part of my 2016–2026 archive migration. Some original formatting, content, and external links may be missing, changed, or not be optimized. Join the Newsletter → Before you say “I do,” make sure their spending habits won’t undo you A previous unmarried partner…
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This piece is part of my 2016–2026 archive migration. Some original formatting, content, and external links may be missing, changed, or not be optimized. Join the Newsletter → In the beginning, investing feels and looks like a fucking joke. You don’t have much—if any—progress. You’re…
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It’s true. You don’t need a sex video, a rock star influencer account, intelligence, or an only fans account to build a seven figure net worth. You also don’t need a course, a conference, or a book. As a kid I never wanted to spend…
I started saving in childhood.Not because someone told me to.Because I liked the idea of keeping something that others couldn’t touch. While most kids spent every dollar on candy or cheap toys, I always kept a little left over after my chaotic dollar-store runs. I’d…
Trust Your Instincts You can’t build healthy relationships if you don’t trust your own instincts. You can’t build health relationships if you don’t build a healthy relationship with self. Your gut is your built-in truth detector—it knows before your logic does. Every time you ignore…
Your Relationship With Self Your relationship with yourself is the only one guaranteed to last a lifetime, yet it’s the one most people abandon first. We chase validation, attention, and approval, but forget to learn our own language. Self-respect isn’t built from affirmation; it’s built…
Boundaries with Self Foundation: The first person you must stop betraying is yourself. Every time you push past exhaustion or silence your instincts, you teach your body your word can’t be trusted. Boundaries with self aren’t punishment—they’re proof you value your peace. Keep promises to…
The Foundation of Real Friendship Friendship will either grow you or gut you. It’s not about time — it’s about truth. Most people confuse proximity for loyalty and comfort for connection. But real friends sharpen you. They mirror your standards, not your fears. Listen to…